我兒:
寫這備忘錄給你,基於三個原因:
(一)人生福禍無常,誰也不知可以活多久,有些事情還是早一點說好。
(二)我是你的父親,我不跟你說,沒有人會跟你說。
(三)這備忘錄裡記載的,都是我經過慘痛失敗得回來的體驗,可以為你的成長省下不少冤枉路。
以下,便是你在人生中要好好記住的事:
(一)對你不好的人,你不要太介懷,在你一生中,沒有人有義務要對你好,除了我和你媽媽。至於那些對你好的人,你除了要珍惜、感恩外,也請多防備一點,因為,每個人做每件事,總有一個原因,他對你好,未必真的是因為喜歡你,請你必須搞清楚,而不必太快將對方看作真朋友。
(二)沒有人是不可代替,沒有東西是必須擁有。看透了這一點, 將來你身邊的人不再要你,或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時,也應該明白,這並不是甚麼大不了的事。
(三)生命是短暫的,今日你還在浪費著生命,明日會發覺生命已遠離你了。因此,愈早珍惜生命,你享受生命的日子也愈多,與其盼望長壽,倒不如早點享受。
(四)世界上並沒有最愛這回事,愛情只是一種霎時的感覺,而這感覺絕對會隨時日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你,請耐心地等候一下,讓時日慢慢沖洗,讓心靈慢慢沉澱,你的苦就會慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美,不要過分誇大失戀的悲。
(五)雖然,很多成功人士都沒有受過很多教育,但並不等如不用功讀書,就一定可以成功。你學到的知識,就是你擁有的武器。人,可以白手興家,但不可以手無寸鐵,緊記!
(六 )我不會要求你供養我下半輩子,同樣地我也不會供養你的下半輩子,當你長大到可以獨立的時候,我的責任已經完結。以後,你要坐巴士還是Benz,吃魚翅還是粉絲,都要自己負責。
(七)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求別人守信,你可以要求自己對人好,但不能期待人家對你好。你怎樣對人,並不代表人家就會怎樣對你,如果看不透這一點,你只會徒添不必要的煩惱。
(八)我買了十多二十年六合彩,還是一窮二白,連三獎也沒有中,這證明人要發達,還是要努力工作才可以,世界上並沒有免費午餐。No Free Lunch!
(九)親人只有一次的緣份,無論這輩子我和你會相處多久,也請好好珍惜共聚的時光,下輩子,無論愛與不愛,都不會再見。
你的爸爸
Thursday, May 20, 2010
无本生意
无本生意的本钱有 4 大领域
劳力、资讯、技术、知识
3种模式来销售:时间、态度和信任。
当你两手空空,什么都没有的时候,你该怎么开始呢?
其实你不是什么都没有,而是你自己没有发现 - 你有最根本的人力,那就是你自己;其次你还有和别人一样公平的资源,那就是时间;你还有源源不绝的研发工具,那就是你的智慧与学习力!
你在上班的时候,就是老板花钱买你的人力与时间,或者专业与智慧。你只要把它想象成,上班是卖给一个客户,创业是卖给很多客户即可。
重点在于,你要怎么卖?
1。懒惰的时间
2。替身的时间
3。学习的时间
- 协助别人学习
- 代替别人学习
- 运用学习成果作生意
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Middle Class vs World Class
1. competes vs creates.
2. avoids risk vs manages risk.
3. lives in delusion vs lives in objective reality.
4. loves to be comfortable vs is comfortable being uncomfortable.
5. has a lottery mentality vs has an abundance mentality.
6. hungers for security vs doesn’t believe security exists.
7. sacrifices growth for safety vs sacrifices safety for growth.
Get out of your comfort zone!
8. operates out of fear and scarcity vs operates from love and abundance.
9. focuses on having vs focuses on being.
10. sees themselves as victims vs sees themselves as responsible.
11. slows down vs calms down.
12. is frustrated vs is grateful.
13. has pipedreams vs has vision.
14. is ego-driven vs is spirit driven.
15. is problem oriented vs is solution oriented.
Be Uncomfortable!
16. thinks he know enough vs is eager to learn
17. chooses fear vs chooses growth
18. is boastful vs is humble
19. trades time 4 money vs trades ideas 4 money
20. denies intuition vs embraces intuition
21. seeks riches vs seeks wealth
22. believe their vision only when they see it vs know they will see their vision when they believe it
23. coaches through logic vs coaches through emotion
Monday, May 3, 2010
Robert Kiyosaki Tweets
Working hard and saving money, it's a setup.
Social instability causes the price of gold and silver to rise.
I don't have to know everything. That's why teams are so important to me.
Unity is plural. It takes a minimum of two.
During every economic collapse a dictator arises
My theory on bacon and eggs. The chicken is involved but the pig is committed.
In school they say mistakes are bad. In the Rich Dad world, there is power in making mistakes.
History is important because it repeats itself.
You can have all the wealth you want but without health, it means nothing. And vice versa.
Bucky Fuller says you don't need a priest btwn you and God. I think you don't need a financial planner btwn you and wealth.
C.I.A. stands for Capitalism Intelligence Army.
Money is one form of power. But what is more powerful is financial education.
My brain gets stronger everyday because I exercise it.
If you want to go somewhere, it is best to find someone who has already been there.
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